Ask married couples about their married life, and the answer you get most of the time is, "everything changes after marriage." Is marriage that bad? It surely doesn't have to be that way! If you keep these few points in mind before you say the magical words, " I do" then you're going to do great even after marriage. So let's get started.After the excitement of the wedding wears off, however, your life as a married couple truly begins – and, real talk, married life is not always a piece of cake.Now that you’re merging your lives together, you’re bound to have disagreements over how you’ll spend your money, where you’ll go on holidays, and who does what horrible household chore.
Travel together with the one you're thinking of settling down.
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t's important to travel with the one you're thinking of settling down with because when you journey with that person, you feel what it is like to be free with one another. You learn to understand that person better; how you react with one another and how comfortable you are with each other even in the most uncomfortable situations.
Discuss what you expect from each other and your marriage.
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Your future must be a mixed effort and what you need for yourselves and each other. Speak your mind without holding back anything because that's what marriage is all about.
Live in together before you think of getting married to the one.
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Because you want to feel and know what it is like to stay with that person. Marriages fall apart because couples realise only once they start living together that they don't like certain habits about their partner.
Important thing to be discussed, If you plan to have kids.
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You need to know whether your accomplice thinks the same way like you do because you don't want to get into something and later find out your accomplice 'hates kids.'
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Get a system in place and come to an agreement about sharing household duties.
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Working together and sharing the household duties makes life so much easier for both of you. Marriage no way means slacking off on family duties.
Let your accomplice know what according to you is being dishonest.
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Is flirty texting dishonest? Or is 'sleeping with another' dishonest? Spell it out loud and clear to each other, so the rules are laid down straight before you dive deeper into something more serious.
Have those arguments and have loads of them before you marry.
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You want to know whether your accomplice is a person who stands their ground or a one who just walks out the door everytime issues get heated up. You want to know if your accomplice takes the relationship seriously the way you do. Emotions and feelings need to come out, just bottling them up is not a good idea.
